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I love this manifesto! It’s so easy to get pulled into feeling like we need to do more more more. I’ve been there for a few weeks and this is a nice reminder to take a deep breath and take it slow. Needed to read this today.

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I'm so glad, thank you for sharing Hanna! Absolutely. Anything you'd put on your manifesto? 👀

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I’m so happy I found this post when I found it, it was so needed for a fellow 31-year-old-human who is burned out from freelancing full time 😮‍💨. Your manifesto guidelines are such a good reminder to slow down and enjoy the ride. Being a freelancer isn’t for the weak let me tell you! 😂

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This appeared in my feed at exactly the right moment Lucia! So much good advice! I left a full time job and went freelance earlier this year with a client who wanted me to do 3 days a week. That only lasted a few months and she could no longer afford me. I had to decide whether to jump back into the security of full time or take a pause to reassess what I wanted before acting. I did the latter and it’s been hard - I had a wobble just yesterday and started searching LinkedIn for jobs 😆 but your writing has helped me get clearer on what I want and being intentional about it 👏

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Oh that's so lovely to hear, Sara—sometimes you need a sign 🌝 being freelance is HARD, but the easiest thing to do is not always what you need. Please do reach out if you ever fancy a chat with another freelancer :)

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Wonderful! The image about LinkedIn – felt that in my bones. Eeeekk.

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Needed to read this as I finish out a kind of quiet year, but I was also compassionate with myself as it's been a tough year otherwise. But happy to see others embrace a slower pace of freelance work life!

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I love this. Pieces of this are things I've been thinking about but didn't feel confident some or is start and let the 9-5 Monday take over without realizing.

I like that you wrote it or this was and I'm going to pin it to me wall as a reminder❤️

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Thank you for sharing this Lucia. I entered the workforce during the height of the girl boss, hustle till you drop, max out productivity era and I leaned into it HARD. It brought me a sense of purpose and like I was doing something with my life. Unlike you, I am still a full time employee but even in this situation, I am trying to embrace the slow business mindset. Make my own schedule as much as I can, spend time working on the tasks that feel the most important and not the most urgent or sometimes just also taking it slow. Because let's be honest, I work in social media marketing, I am not saving lives or changing the world for the better (probably quite the opposite actually).

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yeeeea I felt this one deep! Since going freelance, whenever I'm not working but all my friends are, I feel really guilty. Never mind that there are times when I work on the weekend or late at night, if I'm free on Tuesday afternoon I'm looking for things to do😂 must remember to rest when we can!

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I love this. When working for yourself, it's so easy to burn out and we are now having conversations about taking care of ourselves while running our own businesses.

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